Dr. Tomris Mahirel, in his 48 -year professional life, witnessed and accompanied the birth of three generations: mother, child and grandchild.
Mahirel, at the end of the 1970s, began to work as one of the country’s leading female gynecology experts.
He was a physician who had spent hours with patients who started their birth and breast milk and spent hours with patients who started birth pain.
He said that he wrote the recording of each birth to his own register and said, ım I did not count it so that they should not be reduced, but I will count, ”he said, how happy the children were growing and seeing the family.
Tomris Mahirel, speaking to Cyprus (TAK) to Cyprus (TAK), started in 1977 and completed in 2019 by saying, ım I reached professional satisfaction ”.
Based on his professional experience, Tomris Mahirel said, “I have to believe in the existence of a great power.
-Love and a bedside chocolate
Tomris Mahirel was born on August 15, 1948 in Nicosia as the median daughter of the couple of Kıymet-Ahmet Cevdet Polili. At first, Ahmet POLİLİ, who was a shoemaker, could not provide enough profit from this profession and started to sell fabric in the village with his car.
Tomris Mahirel, who went to sell fabric with his father on holidays until he finished primary school, told the roasting of the liver every Sunday evening, which brings the family together every Sunday morning when he said “very nice”.
He also told him that his father left the Cadbury Chocolate for them while he was sleeping.
– Grandmother who died in birth complications and an orphan -growing mother
Tomris Mahirel, the first member of the family to go abroad for the university, decided to become a physician when he was a high school student. In 1966, he graduated from Nicosia Turkish Girls’ High School as the winner of the classroom and wrote only Ankara Medical Faculty in the university preference form he received from the Ministry of Education.
The sad story of his family was effective in the choice of profession. When his grandmother died in the complication of birth, Tomris Mahirel’s mother was orphans at the age of 3 and a half.
Tomris Mahirel, who was influenced by his grandmother’s experiences, devoted himself to women’s health; He accompanied hundreds of births, and as a doctor of his daughter and the bride, he had the birth of his grandchildren.
Tomris Mahirel told his mother with love and longing for his lifestyle support, and told him how fond of his family was a loving, resourceful and altruistic woman.
-The faded
So, how did he start his education in Ankara?
Tomris Mahirel, who did not spend a single night away from his house until he went abroad for the university, was sent off with a convoy to the airport.
“I was the first to go abroad to read. Whoever had a car in the family would join the convoy to see me.
-Letters written to the cry and the cold of Ankara
Ankara Cyprus Girls Talebe Dormitory settled in a room with 3 bunk beds, the first night until the morning until the morning crying maybe 10, maybe 15 letters, Tomris Mahirel, was one of the most letter fields of the dormitory.
Mahirel, waiting for the phone to be opened from the travel agent of his mother and his father Sabri Tahir, because he came to Cyprus once a year, remembered that he had difficulty getting used to the winter of Ankara in the first year and cried from the cold.
Tomris Mahirel, who received scholarships from the Ministry of National Education of the Republic of Turkey for 6 years, said that he was working with military discipline during medical education.
-That heart is sad in the prayer of the prayer …
Tomris Mahirel, who always stayed in the dormitory, slept at the time when everyone was standing, and even the dormitory manager took the night poll in bed; After the foot was pulled, he got up and studied until morning.
“Whenever I hear the call to prayer in the morning. Zekâ also met Mahirel.
-Love in Ankara…
Dr. Zekâ Mahirel was in the first student group from Ankara to Erenköy, and when he returned to Ankara, he completed his mission and returned to Ankara. He entered Tomris Mahirel’s class.
“We started the second class together. That year, in 1967, Zekâ Bey opened me. I was surprised. ‘Is this friendship early?’ I thought, but I didn’t like it, and I even saw a strong angel.
The couple, who came to Cyprus for the summer vacation and engaged in July 28, 1968, did not make a request such as wedding or weddings without graduating from Ankara Medical Faculty by keeping his promise to his family.
For the 4 -year engagement period, “it was very nice …” said Dr. Tomris Mahirel remembered the days of Ankara with a smile.
“Even if we meet at school, even if we could not meet, Zekâ Bey must come to the country every evening, he would go home like that. Antep would come to my visit with a pile chocolate. I would run down when my name was announced.
One hand in the winter days in the pocket of Zekâ Bey’s coat, the other in our hands, lecture notes from Lower Ayrancı to Çankaya’ya study and return… ”
-Two weddings in Cyprus… The first baby is coming
Mahirel couple, who graduated from Ankara Medical Faculty, successfully won a half -term assistant in Cyprus in 1972 as the exam prepared by the Ministry of Health of the Republic of Turkey.
Dr. Tomris Mahirel, the first physician who gave the scalpel to his hand, Gynecology and Obstetrics Service Clinical Chief Dr. Cahit Gürel told him that he was and commemorated him with mercy.
The Mahirel couple married in September 1972. In those years when transportation was not as easy as now, it would be difficult to gather guests in one place.
Couple’s daughters Gamze Mahirel (Bozatlı) He was born in 1973. Tomris Mahirel, Clinical Chief Dr. He remembered that Cahit Gürel and Chief Nurse Firdevs İslamoğlu.
They named Tomris the first baby he had made
“Being a mother is a very tremendous feeling, the arrival of a baby to the world, Mij said Tomris Mahirel, said that he had his first professional experience in birth in a student.
“I entered the birth for the first time in Ankara. There is a chief of the head, there is an assistant. You have a baby called ‘hop’, but you cannot understand what it is.
I had the first real birth in Cyprus. It was very exciting. You can have a sinless life and your life depends entirely on you; You will clean your mouth, you will cut the umbilical cord… This is an unidentified feeling. They gave him my name. Born in 1972, Tomris is now 53 years old… ”
In the 1974 Peace Operation, Mahirel couple worked at the Nicosia General Hospital of the Cigarette Factory.
Tomris Mahirel, Ankara Dr. Zekai Tahir Burak Women’s Health Training and Research Hospital and his wife Zekâ Mahirel chose Ankara Numune Hospital for Surgical Specialization.
-The consolation cigarette burned
Approximately one and a half -year -old daughter Gamze’yi Tomris Mahirerel’s mother and sisters entrusted the couple, left with sadness from Cyprus.
“There is no plane in 1974… We will go to Ankara with the first ship named ‘Troy’ to Famagusta.
After the specialization, Tomris Mahirel returned to Cyprus as one of the first female gynecology experts in 1977. He started to work as a gynecology and obstetrician in health services. Burhan Nalbantoğlu said that the State Hospital is in construction.
Tomris Mahirel said that they opened a clinic in 1979 and worked here with his wife. In the same year, he gave birth to his son Ahmet Cevdet Mahirel. Burhan Nalbantoğlu resigned from his post at the State Hospital and served only in the clinic.
-FUL MEMORIES
“Zekâ Bey and I worked very intensively, but we spent the rest of our work with our family, Tom Tomris Mahirel said, shared a memory of physicians working without hours.
At the door who insisted late at night, he said that a woman who gives birth at home is the wife of help. Tomris Mahirel also remembered how long the garden road, where the patient walked to reach his home.
“An old woman was sweeping the blood by pouring a bucket of water. It was as if we came to the slaughterhouse, not home. There was a woman in the bedroom, a baby in the belly cord and an open baby. Look at the greatness of God. The baby was not bleeding.
On the one hand, we carried the woman and the baby to my car with a blanket. As I passed through the garden, I pulled the nylon cover on the table, laid it in the back seat and put the woman in the car. Should I go to the hospital or clinic? The hospital is far away, the procedures may extend… The patient is white… I took great risk and went to the clinic… ”
-A tiny hand extending from the womb of the man …
Tomris Mahirel, who said that he stayed in the operating room until he dawned that night, but sent the mother and the baby to his home with health, was about the hand extending from the womb to him.
“One of the twins was born. I extended my hand for the second baby, a tiny hand caught my finger from the inside.
Dr. Tomris Mahirel with his family on his way to Famagusta to visit the house near Haspolat to see his patient who came to Nicosia in the car asked his wife to stop.
Mahirel, who learned the pains that started early when the car in the opposite lane stops, turned to Nicosia and had the birth of it, but never forgot how upset his son and his son were unfinished.
-680 grams of intersecting roads after years
Tomris Mahirel said that the smallest baby he had given his birth in his professional life, which includes many stories like this and such a stories, and that this child was born and raised in difficult conditions when he was not intensive care for premature and shared that he shared the same office with his son Ahmet Cevdet Mahirel for a period.
-Hittish and motherhood
Tomris Mahirel told the difficulty of being a female physician who gave birth to his second baby but also told him through breast milk, but he said he could not breastfeed his children as he wishes.
Recalling that his dress was clouded in the days when he worked very long, Tomris Mahirel told me that he was always in favor of breastfeeding and helping them to help them.
-From the eyes of a child, physician parents
Ahmet Cevdet Mahirel, who was included in a part of the interview, talked about the difficulties of being a physician child and being in the same place with the clinic and the house.
Recalling the crowd in front of the clinic in front of a school, Ahmet Mahirel said that the patient with an excessive bleeding patient was intervened with physicians who were called from the outside for a long time.
-“88 years of happiness in 44 years”
He spent 44 years together and said, “He gave me 88 years of happiness in 44 years”. Burhan Nalbantoğlu State Hospital for many years as a chief physician. Tomris Mahirel, who lost Zekâ Mahirel at the age of 67 in 2012, spoke about this early farewell.
“Zekâ Bey was a perfect wife, father and friend. He was a perfect surgeon, but he was a very bad patient. He did not look at himself. I felt in a very emptiness with his loss. My sister’s fountain and my sister Hulya came to me every evening. My children did not leave me alone.
My job was of great benefit to my clinging to life. After I lost Zekâ Bey, I immediately returned to work. My father’s loss was very shocking for me, I came from his funeral, and I went to birth in the evening. Physician is such a thing… ”
-1 April joke?
Dr. Tomris Mahirel announced on April 1, 2019 that he would no longer see patients with a letter hanging on the door of the clinic.
“After working with military discipline for 42 years, I said, ‘Thank you’ and left the task to the youth. I call it a discharge from the profession.
His family’s decision to close the clinic did not know. So much so that when he went to the clinic, Ahmet Mahirel, who saw such an article at the door, thought it was his mother’s April 1 joke.
“I wanted to quit. Even if you feel vigorous, he took some things away. I was never a doctor who left the patient who started the birth pain to the midwife. In my hand of the patient’s hand, we breathe in the pains, we laughed between the pains, we played.
Currently, Tomris Mahirel, who is currently the President of the Turkish Cypriot Women’s Union Nicosia, said that he likes to be active, that he met with children he witnessed in all areas of life, that they had established a family, that they were successful in business life and that he was happy to see him.
Among these children, teachers, engineers, physicians, even gynecology experts, he said.
-Dr. Advice to young people from Mahirel: “Medicine cannot be done without human love”
Tomris Mahirel, who commemorates the period when he was active in the profession, but with love, was directed towards young people.
“I lived everything full, I never said I wish.
I loved people very much. Physician cannot be done without human love. ”
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